15 years ago I married the man of my dreams. He was handsome, hot, respectful, funny, intelligent, proud, hard working, honest, caring, came from a good family, serious, sensitive, had hopes and dreams and was a generally all round "good kiwi bloke".
He is still all of those things today and more.
We have shared so many experiences over the last 15 years, some awesome, some not so great - we've worked together through the thick and thin and came out the otherside still the best of mates and lovers. We've had lots of "new chapters" start in our life together, we've closed a few out and learnt from those experiences.
We will grow old together, because we have the same desires and goals while still respecting each others differences and we want the best for ourselves and each other. Sometimes we no doubt piss each other off completely, but we never let the sun go down on a disagreement and there are no such things as silent treatment or grudges - there isnt enough time for shit like that. We've never had a full blown argument but we have agreed to disagree. We arent perfect, no relationship is - it's not easy being in each others faces 24/7.
We've seen each other at our best and been proud of each other, we've seen each other in our darkest moments and vowed to help each other through them ... cos thats what life partners do.
Isnt it?
Happy Anniversary darling, I love you. I wonder what experiences the next 15 years will bring? With you by my side, I cant wait - bring them on.
Wednesday, November 21, 2007
Happy Anniversary
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Oh that was just lovely!! Congratulations to you both. Any chance of a wedding photo? I love what you wrote and it sounds very much like Stu and I. Maybe Craig would like to write something back? We do love his sense of humour... lol
I could have written that about my Stew too! CONGRATUALTIONS on your anniversary mate!
Congratulation on your anniversary...15yrs neat. Hugs
Beautiful post, made me cry!
From what you have written over the years I have reading your blog, you sound made for each other!
Happy anniversary guys :-)
You've summed up a perfect relationship! Congrats to the pair of you:-0
we've just hit 35 years!!
Everybody say "Ahhhhhh...."
Happy Anniversary to you both and after reading that I can just imagine Craig's response
"if you love me that much, PAINT THE HOUSE".....hahaha love that man!
Happy Anniversary Leenie and Craig!!! Well done for the first 15 years.
Love Chubbymum
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Hi Helena,
A HUGE happy anniversary to you and your beloved. And a confession from me, that I didn't actually realise you were married. For some reason I always thought you had just shagged up (like I was) lol.
I totally agree with not going to sleep on an disagreement or not holding gruges. I would so loved for that to have been how my relationship was, but unfortunately my ex would happily give me the silent treatment for a couple of days before considering that I had been 'punished' sufficently and start talking again. As you say, lifes to short for that kind of crap. I am so envious of you having a relationship that doesn't operate that way, (as I would have LOVED mine to have been like that too) but SO happy for you that you have found someone who treats you the way you should be treated.
I love how respectful of each other you sound and would love to find that type of person sometime in the future.
oh PS, I'm packing my computer up so will be off line for about 15 days.
Bye for now. I'll be back soon.
PPS: those camo pants look great on you.
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